Due to COVID restrictions, he was on his own in Norwich hospital when doctors gave him the news that he has a brain tumour. His immediate response was, "I can't have. You've got to have made a mistake. I'm thirty-two years old."
In that moment, Tom just shut down. He didn't want to acknowledge anything to do with brain tumours or cancer. Tom said: "I just couldn't think about anything."
Kelsey has been his rock throughout this, and every day Tom continues to fight for his children and wife. He said: "They need me, and I need them."
After deciding as a family to share Tom's diagnosis with the public, they have received a wave of support and love which has been a true source of strength for the family and has helped them get through this punishing time.
The family further opened their lives to the public by welcoming cameras into their home to film his documentary, Inside My Head. Watch the documentary here to see how the family begin to learn to live with Tom's diagnosis and plan for the future.
Tom's diagnosis has dramatically put life into perspective: "Nothing's ever guaranteed" Tom said. "Tomorrow is never guaranteed for anybody."